I actually have no idea.

Push presents, a phenomenon I had no awareness of, apparently are a big deal.  I vacillate between finding it utterly ridiculous and thinking it’s the right thing to do.  I think an expectation of it is probably what puts me off, or perhaps the expectation of some sort of jewelry or something.  Should the baby be enough?  Yeah, I think so.  Does that preclude some sort of gift?  No it doesnt.  Still, there are few occasions when I find it acceptable to expect a gift, birth of a child isn’t one of them.